Former Court TV star pens analysis to help avoid juvenile delinquency

Attorney and TV personality Lisa Bloom is no stranger to the New York Times' best seller list. Photo credit: Vantage Point


“At this very moment, through no fault of their own, our boys are caught in the vortex of four powerful, insidious, often invisible forces which conspire to rob them of their future.”  Thus begins a provocative new book (on sale May 2012) from New York Times bestselling author, attorney and mother Lisa Bloom:  Swagger: 10 Urgent Rules for Raising Boys in an Era of Failing Schools, Mass Joblessness, and Thug Culture

We medicate, discipline, suspend and expel our boys from school at quadruple the rate of girls, attorney Lisa Bloom argues.  We let double the number of boys drop out of high school than girls, and of those boys who do graduate, they are far more likely than their sisters to be illiterate, to fail to go to college, or to drop out of college if they do go.  “Reading is girly,” many boys now say.

The unemployment rate for our teen boys and young men rivals that of Arab Spring countries.  And because the fundamentals of our economy have changed dramatically in the last decade, boys without college degrees are not only left behind in young adulthood, they’re virtually guaranteed to be shut out of the middle class all their lives.  Traditional “male” blue collar jobs?  Mostly gone, and they’re not coming back.

As our failing schools and decaying economy batter boys, Bloom argues, our “thug culture” promotes an unprecedented level of viciousness and drug use.  No longer on the fringe, “slap the bitch” music has gone mainstream. Our boys’ favorite video games have never met a problem they couldn’t fix with gun violence or carnage.  In film and television, heroes prevail through murder and mayhem.  And the most popular word in music over the last decade?  Swagger.

You don’t have to know anything, you don’t need skills, or character, or integrity, multimillion dollar recording artists exhort our boys (backed up by gigantic media conglomerates counting their profits from these messages).  Just puff yourself up with false bravado and fake it, boys!  Swagger.  And our boys have absorbed this message.  They may rank 21st out of 30 developed countries in math, but there’s one area where they are #1:  confidence!

There is one road for boys who don’t overcome their failing schools, who aren’t exceptional enough to find a job where there is none, who absorb the message that real men express anger via gun violence or who use or sell drugs, and that road has one dead-end terminus:   our ever-expanding, bursting-to-the-seams prisons, Bloom says.

Our prison population has skyrocketed to its highest level in U.S. history – more than any other country on earth now or in human history.  Ninety-three percent of our prison population is male.  We can’t find the money for better schools, for more accessible college educations, for job training or drug treatment programs.  But we always manage to find the funds for more prisons.  More are being built every day.  Is there a place waiting for your son?

SWAGGER is a wakeup call for parents about the real world our boys inhabit right now, but it offers solutions as well.  From how to teach your boy humility (the swagger anti-venom), to “making your home a reading mecca,” creating an expectation of college graduation, and how to teach your boy to be critical of the media onslaught in his life, the second half of SWAGGER is packed with research-proven, parent-tested, teacher-approved practical solutions, delivered in Bloom’s trademark no-nonsense, often humorous, take-charge voice.

The bottom line?  Your boy needs you now more than ever.  In this rapidly changing environment, knowledge is power.  SWAGGER empowers parents and anyone who cares about boys to get real about the culture we live in, and gives us the tools to do right by our sons.

“SWAGGER is essential guidance for any parent of boys. It’s brutally honest, meticulously researched, and boldly impassioned. It reveals a truth that is hiding in plain sight all around us, calling for our wisdom and commitment and love. I couldn’t put it down.”

– Marianne Williamson, New York Times bestselling author of A Return to Love

“As the father of three sons (and six daughters), I am profoundly grateful to my friend Lisa Bloom for this timely and important wake up call.  Every parent and anyone who cares about the next generation of boys should read this book, today!”

– Rabbi Shmuley Boteach, New York Times bestselling author of 10 Conversations You Need to Have With Your Children

The Moral Liberal Contributing Editor, Jim Kouri, CPP, is the fifth Vice President and Public Information Officer of the National Association of Chiefs of Police, has served on the National Drug Task Force and trained police and security officers throughout the country. Contact Jim.