A Woman Needs To Be Told She Is Beautiful


President Thomas S. Monson

A Way of Life, President Thomas S. Monson


Many years ago, at an area conference held in Helsinki, Finland, I heard a powerful, memorable, and motivating message given in a mothers and daughters’ session. I have not forgotten that message, though nearly 40 years have passed since I heard it. Among many truths the speaker discussed, she said that a woman needs to be told she is beautiful. She needs to be told she is valued. She needs to be told she is worthwhile.

Brethren, I know that men are very much like women in this regard. We need to be told that we amount to something, that we are capable and worthwhile. We need to be given a chance to serve. For those members who have slipped from activity or who hold back and remain noncommittal, we can prayerfully seek for some way to reach them. Asking them to serve in some capacity may just be the incentive they need to return to full activity. But those leaders who could help in this regard are sometimes reluctant to do so. We need to bear in mind that people can change. They can put behind them bad habits. They can repent from transgressions. They can bear the priesthood worthily. And they can serve the Lord diligently.

Excerpt from President Thomas S. Monson’s April 2012 General Conference address, See Others as they may Become.  President Thomas S. Monson is President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. View President Thomas S. Monson’s  full address here.

For several fun Young Men’s youth videos demonstrating the principle that a woman needs to be told she is beautiful, click here, here, here, here, here, and here. H/T Sundee Yardely & Wendy Bonzo.